Tori Talks: dating, TOP 3 spots to NOT look for a mate, and more

It's been over a year since I blogged about "Living Single", and is it me that's been living the longest episode of Living Single, My Crazy Ex, and a pinch of those VH1 Reality Tv shows?? It's bad enough Prince, David Bowie and Muhammad Ali have moved on.... but what crazy line did I sit in to have to deal with half of the mess I deal with out here.

So as I proceed, I'll let you know what I still can't wrap my brain around. This society is the most difficult to figure out. So I found myself trying to open up and trust... and guess what? I got nothing! Absolutely nothing, like my brain is like, "Damn! I told you to let me take over." The hardest part about our society, they label unmarried women from the age of 27-35 but the men that age from my experience are sick and deranged.

Today you're going to learn the TOP 3 spots to NOT look for a mate:
1)Don't try date sites... they are crazier because you don't know their circle and why the hell are they on there!? Don't Do it! No Tinder, No Christian Mingle... etc!

2) Nightclubs are full of married," wanna be" single men or single men that you wish were in relationships because they are the most irritating.

3. Church, at one point it was a good place, but now the church is full of the single creeps that were told church is where you find a woman.

At this point in my life, have a real conversation with the person of interest. Figure out what they sound like when they are passionate about something. Know that this person just can't text a paragraph text, but they can talk. Yes, talk! Did I scare you with that one? The problem in our society, we don't find ourselves talking until it's too late.  Now am I getting ready to take my own advice??? Actually, I'm just getting ready to focus on me. I'm feeling a lot like America after we break up with Barack, feeling the need to learn more about me. Yes, I may develop a selfishness about myself, but you know... I'm cool with taking myself on a date. Victoria! Party of one!

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Tori Talks: Young Greatness, Gorillas, and more...

YOUNG GREATNESS -BALL SOURCE: INSTAGRAM

https://soundcloud.com/young-greatness/ball-produced-by-marlibeatz
Going into the weekend with a bang! Young Greatness, yes! Mr. Hustle JUST TO GET THAT MOOLAH himself, drops another one! Yea he lettin' ya know how he wanna BALL on 'em! I see this being the new SUMMER TIME ANTHEM! Get ready!
Young Greatness is living up to that name for sure! Got me out here ready to win with this one! So if you in a vibe in the car or gettin' that cardio going, you're going to love the latest single from Young Greatness after Moolah and right in time for Chef Curry in the Kitchen after OKC ...OKC ya' next year!
Yea, Young Greatness, VICTORIA SAID IT! AND TORI TALKIN' about it! #WINNINGSEASON LISTEN HERE

CINCINNATI ZOO SOURCE:INSTAGRAM

Now who isn't winning is the mom of the 4 year-old that found himself face to face with 17 year old Harambe. Now after the Gorilla has moved on to the promise land in the sky with Mufasa, the investigators are looking way too deep into the mother and father's (that wasn't at the zoo)  background. No one is checking the zoo and their security efforts. Let's not forget this isn't the first child chillin' with zoo animals story... just the first to get this much coverage!

NBA Source: INSTAGRAM

What else will be heavy coverage? NBA Finals and in SAINT LOUIS!  Celebrity Basketball with Loosecannon Slim VS Floyd "Money" Mayweather. It's about to be heavy because I'm calling it, CURRY and SLIM! Yea I'm a girl for the Golden Gate Bridge and the Gateway Arch. Lebron  you at work or nah?

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Teese 2016

Yo! So tonight I hit the streets and because it's was something going on in my neck of the woods, I had to stop by! Teese 2016 , was a new flavor and definitely the place to be! For someone like me, > a workaholic that likes a chill scene! I stepped out fresh in my Think Smart jersey and checked out a lot of talent that graced the city of Saint Louis. Located in the Old North, where every First Friday is Art Walk. Tonight the creative energy was in the air of the new self proclaimed art district of the North Side.

True we've had our share of bad news in the media but one thing about my city that I love...We can do amazing things when we put our minds to work. And if you've never been to a Teese Party, your bad! Check out the pics and I hope to catch you never year!  

       

Festival Of Laughs Tour with Mike Epps

ROTFLMAO! Only explains some of the night! Yes! The Festival of Laughs Tour had a dope line up! Nonstop laughter from beginning to end explains the night at it's fullest! As Saint Louis' KiKi The First Lady of Old School 95.5 was the gracious opening MC to Rickey Smiley, G-Thang, Cocoa Brown, Tony Rock, Earthquake, and Mike Epps. A night of laughs and great music thanks to one 1/2  of The Lou Gotti Boys, DJ CUDDY!

Check out more at http://hot1041stl.com/playlist/festival-of-laughs-tour/

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MOTIVATION MONDAY

It is that time! Get motivated and move forward. No more worrying! It's game time baby!Yes! GAME TIME! Like Kobe! LOL!

The same always goes! Say it and Believe it! This special MM is thanks to song titles!

1) We gon' be alright!- because no matter what it looks like, you're going to be alright!

2) Legend- because if you know it or not, you're building yourself to become a LEGEND.

3)Formation- because you have to get into formation to rock to the best of your ability.

4)Put on- because in whatever your goal is, you put on and go hard.

5)Lose yourself- because you already know, once you let go of all the fears, you will conquer. 

MOTIVATION MONDAY: NOTE TO SELF

#NoteToSelfVSI

I know you came here for Monday Motivation and you'll never go without that. After my Monday honey! I made several NOTES TO SELF! AND THAT IS EXATLY WHAT I  WANT YOU TO DO!
I'll share my notes, but so can you! 
Make a video on Instagram using, #NOTETOSELFVSI and share your note of the day!  or send me a 15 second video to victoriasaiditstl@gmail.com I'll post your NOTES to help other readers!






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Monday Motivation

When we take our time, we overcome our fears. Simple! Today and everyday beyond, conquer your fears, because those fears are in the way of your success.

SAY IT!

1. My full potential to be great is shining through, everyday. More and More!

2. I am focused.

3. The only person in my way is me, if I allow it.

4. No one person can make me give up

5. I am overcoming all fears of being successful.

BELIEVE IT! 

You know you that bitch when you cause all this conversationAlways stay gracious, best revenge is your paper. 

-Beyoncé (Formation)

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