New Podcast Episode: Lil Ronny Motha F And Fat Pimp

Yea you've thrown ya ass in a circle more than once thanks to this man, Lil Ronny Motha F.  Fat Pimp the heavy hitter, shows you he's hungry cause his been makin' moves.  The two teamed up and takin' over as The Fat N Ronny Show. They stopped by to drop new music live with The Lou Gotti Boyz, Thurl Gotti and Cuddy Montana at Hot 104.1

Take my word, Lil Ronny Motha F and Fat Pimp are hilarious! How do I know? These two fools sat down with me, to tell it all. Check out how much fun we had on Victoria Said It, here.

Make sure you check out their new music too!

Lil Ronny with Up In The Air

Fat Pimp with Moves To Make 

Victoria Said It!

MOTIVATION MONDAY

It is that time! Get motivated and move forward. No more worrying! It's game time baby!Yes! GAME TIME! Like Kobe! LOL!

The same always goes! Say it and Believe it! This special MM is thanks to song titles!

1) We gon' be alright!- because no matter what it looks like, you're going to be alright!

2) Legend- because if you know it or not, you're building yourself to become a LEGEND.

3)Formation- because you have to get into formation to rock to the best of your ability.

4)Put on- because in whatever your goal is, you put on and go hard.

5)Lose yourself- because you already know, once you let go of all the fears, you will conquer. 

Monday Motivation

Push the lion in you!

We all need that PUSH! You're not always going to have the time to get your mind right because you're on the go, getting kids ready, getting yourself ready for work... The excuses are endless. So this quick pick motivation was inspired by my everyday life. 

1. Don't stop!
2. It isn't getting worse, it's making you stronger.
3. You're great, because no one else is like you.
4. Your hard work is all paying off.
5. Allow your strongest you to shine

There you have it, I hope this gets you to where you need to be today and through the week. Share, so that someone else can be encouraged today!

Don't get impatient when it takes too longDrink it all even when it tastes too strongYeah, I gotta feel alive, even if it kills meI promise to always give you me, the real me!-Drake (Light Up)

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Monday Motivation

IT IS A NEW YEAR AND NO, NOT A NEW ME, BUT KNOW IT'S A REAL YEAR. THE MOTIVATION IS ON A THOUSAND AND IT IS MONDAY!!! THE FIRST MONDAY OF THE NEW YEAR AND YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT PLACE!!!! GET YOUR MIND TOGETHER! MAKE THIS YEAR YOUR YEAR TO SHINE! NO YOU DONT HAVE TO BE NEW IN HOW YOU CARRY YOURSELF BUT BE NEW IN THE IMPACT YOU PUT INTO YOUR GRIND! IF YOU'VE BE HANGING ON, YOU'LL KNOW I USE MONDAY AS A NEW YEAR EVERY WEEK, BECAUSE THE WEEK TO COME IS GOING TO COME WITH NO TRIALS  AND TRIBULATIONS!
HANG ON BABY! I GOT WHAT YA NEED!! MONDAY MOTIVATION!!!

For the new year, I'll start with 5 motivational affirmations I tell myself and my daughter!

1) I'm great
2) Not one person or situation can break me!
3) There is always an upside to what seems like a downfall
4) Pain is temporary
5) Use any form of a fall back as a come up!

Doing is one thing. Doing it right is a whole different story -Drake (Preach ft Party Next Door)

5 QUOTES

 I've  discovered that being an adult is the ultimate challenge, then to dig deep I find it is even more of a challenge to be a woman. In addition to being a female and adult... add black to the equation baby. 

Women birth the children with the help of a males sperm, but we carry the child for 9 months in hopes that the child we birth will be healthy, smart, and safe. We hope that this child will listen to us and stay away from the bad people. As a mother, the struggles are real. 

Being black is the icing on the cake. It is 2015 and to be uplifted by society is an up hill battle. No I'm not putting down white women. I'm simply uplifting woman all together that I know without a doubt get only little praise and little encouragement. And no I'm not preaching feminism, but as its been stated, encouragement. Yes when all else fails, quote Drake, but no fails here; be powerful! 

• “Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it.” – Maya Angelou
• ‎”When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you.” – African Proverb
• “The triumph can’t be had without the struggle.” – Wilma Rudolph
• “Whatever is bringing you down, get rid of it. Because you’ll find that when you’re free . . . your true self comes out.” — Tina Turner
• “There is always something to do. There are hungry people to feed, naked people to clothe, sick people to comfort and make well. And while I don’t expect you to save the world I do think it’s not asking too much for you to love those with whom you sleep, share the happiness of those whom you call friend, engage those among you who are visionary and remove from your life those who offer you depression, despair and disrespect.” – Nikki Giovanni

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So I went thrift shopping today. Yes... I love to go thrift shopping and  I came across this thing. Only thing is I don't know what it is exactly. My plan was to use it for my cigarette smokers for their ashtray on my patio, but then I started looking at it and I really want to know what it is!
It's come to my attention that it's way more than an ashtray. Hell my daughter said "it's looks like a thing you keep people's ashes in". LOL! At least I hope it isn't an urn.
This has been on my brain like Kanye, ALL DAY ALL DAY! Help me!

"What up, what up? H Town in this bit*h! What up, what up? Me and Pump about to do it for the city! What up..."
-Drake (What Up)

Your Tattoos Make You A Horrible Mother... Really?

Does your INK make you a bad parent? Are you unlikely to have a fantasy wedding with Ink? You have tattoos,  will your child get them too?

12 tattoos and counting, 10 years of raising a beautiful daughter, and I'm still a kick ass parent. Having tattoos as a female, people who don't have them or don't understand the art, can make you feel almost less of a woman/man/parent because of the tattoos. You have those that chose their tattoo position to strategically hide when they wed, but who says you'll get married? In my twenties, I don't see marriage in the near future (too many "I'm not ready" types), but whomever is lucky enough, he'll love the art too. Being a thespian and a student ambassador in undergrad, I mastered how to cover my art with makeup. Should I have to? No, but that was then. Now, if it doesn't put money in my pocket/feed my family, then the INK lives.

One famous parent, Mark Wahlberg in 2012 removed his tattoo of Bob Marley located on his shoulder, in hopes that he will deter his children. Let this be known, neither of my parents, grandparents, or uncles and aunts have tattoos. My oldest brother has one tat. I'm 1 of 5 and I'm the one with the most. Myself and my daughter's father are neck and neck with the number of tattoos. As a young child, Cailyn would take washable markers and say "look I have tattoos like daddy!". Now at 10 they amuse her as art but the pain she's aware of and isn't fond of what all it takes to get at tattoo.

"How many of our parents marriages lasted'. 

-Drake (Fireworks) 

Strong, educated, determined, and a mother...with no man

Baby momma. Mom. Mother. Mommy. These are all titles I wear well. Being a Mommy and dating can be difficult. You have the kind of men out here that  can either handle it or they are too weak. You know the man I'm talking about, the one that thinks you want him to be your child's father. The one that assumes it's going to be BD/BM (BABY DADDY/BABY MOMMA) drama.
It never fails, true my daughter is my life. I really only trust a handle full of males around her,  which none of them I've ever dated. I love that girl and never regret her. She made me the woman people love to know. Thank her when you see us out because I wouldn't have completed  half of what I have without her.
Being a mom isn't bad, she is my responsibility, and I have a strong support system. If the man I'm dating can't handle that, then I guess it will always be the two of us. If the man that I'm dating thinks he's too accomplished to be with a "baby momma", then I guess it will always be the two of us and OUR accomplishments .  If the guy I'm dating isn't able to comprehend that I make sacrifices for me and my daughter's wellbeing, then I guess its just the two of us. If the guy I'm dating can't accept the responsibility of just being a responsible male role model; not a dad, not step daddy, not a boyfriend, but responsible male... Then I'm happy with it being just me and my Princess... until she finds a man that will respect her... It's just the two of us. I'm a mom. I'm not looking for someone to sponsor us. I'm literally looking for a man that can be in our life without thinking he's better than me if he doesn't have kids or a man that if he has a kid or few, that he takes care of those kids.