Tisha Campbell ain't Gina, She's a lazy bitch

Tisha Cambell -Martin and Tichina Arnold on the set of Martin

Damn Gina!! Ok let me not say that too loud and Tisha Campbell try not to come for me because the LAZY BITCH she is. LOL!! I promise if you haven't heard this damn song by Tisha Campbell!!!! Yes the song is called Lazy Bitch and one would say she's maybe a little too seasoned to perform a song like this but I always say, you're as young as you feel.
Gina ass read a book to few and told all you heffas to have several seats, LOL!! I mean the lyrics are very focused. Tisha rocks out letting you know you are all her children, but who is she referring to? Could it be that Gina... I mean Tisha Campbell gave a lot of ungrateful folks their path? Tell me if I'm lying but growing up in the late 80's and early 90's you wanted to be Chiffon (Little Shop of Horrors) , Jane Toussaint (School Daze) , Gina (Martin), and lets not forget Sydney (House Party)! Truth be told Tisha Campbell did get to the level where every female wanted to be her and every man to be with her. As she always was admired by me for her craft of acting and singing, Lazy Bitch is different and not expected but it reminds me of a little Beyoncé like... I'll take it Mrs, Campbell-Martin!

Damn girl I wanna ride with youWaved up blowing up blowing up growing up-Drake (Madonna)

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Victoria Said It! Episode 5: Your man, but his wife

For Valentine's Day, Lady R will have to decide how she wants to spend her special day with and so will her date. Check out what Lady R sent in for ASK VICTORIA.

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Victoria Said It! Episode 2: You're not alone

 It's ASK VICTORIA!

We have Lady L, and she writes that she's a senior in high school. Getting ready to graduate this May! She has a dilemma, can't make her think this is the end.

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Living at my mama's house we'd argue every mornin' ni**a,I was trying to get it on my own...Ni**a, I just think it's funny how it goesNow I'm on the road, half a million for a showAnd we...Started from the bottom now we're here-Drake (Started From The Bottom)

Strong, educated, determined, and a mother...with no man

Baby momma. Mom. Mother. Mommy. These are all titles I wear well. Being a Mommy and dating can be difficult. You have the kind of men out here that  can either handle it or they are too weak. You know the man I'm talking about, the one that thinks you want him to be your child's father. The one that assumes it's going to be BD/BM (BABY DADDY/BABY MOMMA) drama.
It never fails, true my daughter is my life. I really only trust a handle full of males around her,  which none of them I've ever dated. I love that girl and never regret her. She made me the woman people love to know. Thank her when you see us out because I wouldn't have completed  half of what I have without her.
Being a mom isn't bad, she is my responsibility, and I have a strong support system. If the man I'm dating can't handle that, then I guess it will always be the two of us. If the man that I'm dating thinks he's too accomplished to be with a "baby momma", then I guess it will always be the two of us and OUR accomplishments .  If the guy I'm dating isn't able to comprehend that I make sacrifices for me and my daughter's wellbeing, then I guess its just the two of us. If the guy I'm dating can't accept the responsibility of just being a responsible male role model; not a dad, not step daddy, not a boyfriend, but responsible male... Then I'm happy with it being just me and my Princess... until she finds a man that will respect her... It's just the two of us. I'm a mom. I'm not looking for someone to sponsor us. I'm literally looking for a man that can be in our life without thinking he's better than me if he doesn't have kids or a man that if he has a kid or few, that he takes care of those kids.