It's been over a year since I blogged about "
Living Single", and is it me that's been living the longest episode of Living Single, My Crazy Ex, and a pinch of those VH1 Reality Tv shows?? It's bad enough Prince, David Bowie and Muhammad Ali have moved on.... but what crazy line did I sit in to have to deal with half of the mess I deal with out here.
So as I proceed, I'll let you know what I still can't wrap my brain around. This society is the most difficult to figure out. So I found myself trying to open up and trust... and guess what? I got nothing! Absolutely nothing, like my brain is like, "Damn! I told you to let me take over." The hardest part about our society, they label unmarried women from the age of 27-35 but the men that age from my experience are sick and deranged.
Today you're going to learn the TOP 3 spots to
NOT look for a mate:
1)Don't try date sites... they are crazier because you don't know their circle and why the hell are they on there!? Don't Do it! No Tinder, No Christian Mingle... etc!
2) Nightclubs are full of married," wanna be" single men or single men that you wish were in relationships because they are the most irritating.
3. Church, at one point it was a good place, but now the church is full of the single creeps that were told church is where you find a woman.
At this point in my life, have a real conversation with the person of interest. Figure out what they sound like when they are passionate about something. Know that this person just can't text a paragraph text, but they can talk. Yes, talk! Did I scare you with that one? The problem in our society, we don't find ourselves talking until it's too late. Now am I getting ready to take my own advice??? Actually, I'm just getting ready to focus on me. I'm feeling a lot like America after we break up with Barack, feeling the need to learn more about me. Yes, I may develop a selfishness about myself, but you know... I'm cool with taking myself on a date. Victoria! Party of one!
Victoria Said It!
This weekend was crazy, so much going on and it felt like so little time. Kanye West is back at, releasing a visual that many would consider disturbing. Kanyes' video, "Famous" has him in bed with Kim, Taylor Swift, Chris Brown, Riahnna, Ray J, Cailtyn Jenner, Amber Rose and more. I guess when you become famous, the level of creativity is endless. Now, you know Taylor isn't happy because she still thinks what Kanye did back in the day, didn't make her famous, but before that historical Kanye outburst, many of you looked at her like, "how did she beat Beyoncè?" Check out Riahnna's response here. 
